
CHAPTER: TWO // HANDS ON THE WHEEL
DON'T DO AS WE SAY BUT WATCH AS WE DO
NOWBDY
2/29/20242 min read
Everything we know is either preserved in books, passed down through generations, or projected onto the screens we interact with daily. But what defines truth? Is it what we see, what we agree with, or who we believe? As we navigate through a world flooded with information, we often find ourselves in the role of observers, filled with curiosity, judgment, and reflection.
Our days are saturated with content, leaving us no choice but to indulge in mindless entertainment, eagerly awaiting the next source of serotonin. While positivity brings us joy, we can’t help but be drawn to the drama, rooting for those we feel connected to. But what about community? Is it the sports team we support without ever playing a game, or a political party whose motives we claim to understand? These are not true communities; they’re sides in a greater game, manipulating us like pawns on a board. The only commonality we all share is our humanity. It’s in cherishing and respectfully sharing our differences that we can truly progress.
At times, we find ourselves critiquing others; perceived by some as negativity, but seen by ourselves as merely recognizing societal flaws. There was once a time when strangers would correct misbehaving children in public, but now, we’ve adopted a more passive approach, shifting blame to the parents. We need reminders to steer ourselves back on course, although ultimately, it’s our own actions that derail us.
To bring forth an ideal society, we must abide by three fundamental principles: credibility, accountability, and responsibility.
Think of them as driving a CAR.
·Credibility should be acknowledged where due; first to stop is first to go.
·Accountability demands attention; rectify your mistakes.
·Responsibility is never a choice; always follow the rules.
No amount of wealth matters if these principles are disregarded. A quarter-million-dollar Porsche still includes turn signals; utilize them. Money should never grant entitlement but rather serve as a means of exchange for goods and services. You are only able to purchase if another is willing to sell. It’s about being mature with our finances, making informed decisions rather than succumbing to impulse.
Pride has become a liability, clouding our ability to respect and empathize with others. While celebrating personal achievements is commendable, remember a "pat on the back" is to remind one to stay grounded. In the end, success is not solely determined by external validation but by our internal standards. Strive for excellence and let others emulate your example, for human behavior often mirrors what it sees.
Now is the moment to reflect deeply on these values. How can you embody credibility, accountability, and responsibility in your daily interactions? It’s time for each of us to take the wheel, steering our collective journey towards a more empathetic, understanding, and united community. By embracing and acting upon the principles of the CAR, we not only drive our own lives forward but also pave the way for future generations to thrive in a world that cherishes the richness of human connection above all.
Together, let’s accelerate towards a future where every action and decision is guided by these core values. Be the change, lead by example, and inspire those around you to join in creating a society that honors the dignity of all its members. The road ahead is ours to shape, together.
Drive carefully,
NOWBDY